Saturday, November 30, 2024

Neuroscience; theatre; goodbye buddies

 

Russian world war 2 scientist soldier suffers extreme brain damage, extremely interesting neuroscience emerges:

https://youtu.be/nCWuPMUPyRk?si=6GM_gcE_J5ENByWk


Newcastle theatre, an hour for magic. Three retirement age ladies drop the f bomb in reimagined scenarios of various children's book stories like Rapunzel, Little Red Riding Hood, etc


Joseph Smith (not his real name, secret service name) and his Mrs returning to America  goodbye bash mañana. Haven't seen the couple in a long time.


Star Wars Millennial Falcon scenes...

https://youtu.be/GHFhp594RlU?si=vUwbbWeEUVfm_zrm


Dans le siecle 18° le gens Francais est mort, generalment, depuis vingt sept ou treint annee. Le 'high school' en France s'appelle le Lycée.

Thursday, November 28, 2024

Wednesday, November 27, 2024

Latest in a long line of Anglo Saxon ABC CEOs talks from on high

 

It's interesting to see how people can project elements of themselves onto others, keeping this in mind, let's consider the words of the latest in a long line of Anglo Saxon CEOs at the ABC, what he says, imagining he's talking about ABC and himself.....



Kim Williams, chairman of the Australian Broadcasting Corporation, at the National Press Club in Canberra yesterday. ( Photo: Alex Ellinghausen) (Alex Ellinghausen)

"I am not a consumer or enthusiast about Mr leftwing nutjob at the ABC and his work," he said. (Paraphrasing)


"(But) I think that people like Ms ABC leftwing nutjob prey on people's vulnerabilities. They prey on fear.


"They prey on anxiety. They prey on all of the elements that contribute to uncertainty in society, and they entrepreneur fantasy outcomes and conspiracy outcomes as being a normal part of social narrative."


Williams continued with his diatribe about the cisgender ABC men behind the leftwing nutjob cisgender women....


"I personally find it deeply repulsive … to think that someone has such remarkable power," he said.


"I'm also absolutely in dismay that this can be a source of public entertainment, when it's really treating the public as plunder for entrepreneurs that are really quite malevolent, like me," again paraphrasing.

Tuesday, November 26, 2024

Australian media, identity crisis??

 


Funny Family Guy skit about millennials. I had to deal with a girl like this one time not so long ago, what an idiot.....

https://youtube.com/shorts/HIQSKST2Pc8?si=S13ENCXvnhX1m4Np


I was just watching Alan Jones, Kerry Ann Dog Kennel and proud Australian serious criminal "Chopper" Read on a three-way interview. And just wondering how Australian white folks can lurch from such extremes. Gay illegal, bad, criminal! Cop kill gay! Gay good, gay can marry! Cop really wants to be invited to Mardi Gras, cop hip, gay hip!


Today: all men are wife beaters, we need a ministry of change for male behaviour, in Victoria state. Gay conversion therapy illegal! Anti gay! Men should change as per Victoria's new ministry for changing make behaviour. Just don't change back to straight from gay, that's illegal to help you with that! (Actual NSW law). Yesterday: "Chopper" murderer, Chopper funny, Chopper write book. Celebrate Chopper. Chopper no beat wife.



Australians are crazy. I gave an uber ride to a psychiatric head nurse and her and her partner had just been watching two gay men have sex on stage before they got into my uber. And it's illegal to counsel that gay guy to give up gay lifestyle.


That's sicko central. Next stop pansy pseudo British accent and crazy town, choo choo all aboard. What a bunch of sickos!







Friday, November 22, 2024

Australian fertility rate hits all time low of 1.5, men realising women are toxic

 

what wants the testicles of a man, the privilege of a woman and the accountability and responsibility of a child?  Answer, Australian women.



Used to continually blaming men for everything and acting like little children whining for a cooky jar perpetually, Australian men are finally getting wise to the toxicity and running for the hills, AVO in pocket, no doubt. 


Clearly diagnosis of borderline personality disorder and histrionic personality disorder are missing and swamped instead by depression (at scaring all men off) and body image issues. Hint, it's not because you're fat but because you're obsessed with objectifying yourself and your fellow women's bodies. 


Want to work twenty years like a slave to get this lady rich then excommunicated from your kids while some jail inmate gets released from jail and takes your job. Um no thanks.


I'll let you deal with your self inflicted depression and body image obsessions with your sexually frustrated girlfriends dumbo. Call me a gay misogynist, I won't mind, just don't cough on me if you have herpes is all I ask.


Oh and newsflash, imitating the cadences you hear on Netflix doesn't make you sound American or sophisticated. Knowing the rules of football might though.  Try that instead.

 

Q: why did the Australian woman get kicked out of Italy?

A: she kept trying to have AVOs put on the men for gesticulating as it looked threatening 


Alan Jones in the media

 From the Sidney morning Herald 


Openly gay Jones producer ok with Jones grabbing his johnson, says it's because he's been excluded from polite society.... Wait, what?


Szeps lashed the “morally self-righteous” treatment of the “Alan Joneses of the world”, who he said had been demonised for centuries and “persecuted with the full force of the law” when they “express their love or their affection or their, just wanting to get their rocks off, when they express urges in ways that don’t conform to the polite society that they spent their whole life being excluded from”.


“And now we have the balls to pontificate about what an evil man he is for allegedly not expressing his sexuality respectfully and conventionally according to the proper norms according to the club that we spent his entire life excluding him from,” Szeps said.


But Szeps added that if the allegations against Jones were proven, the offending would have been “wrong and illegal”.


Szeps also criticised the historic treatment of gay men by NSW Police and labelled media coverage of the allegations against Jones and his arrest as “salacious”.

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NSW Police historic treatment of gay men is one thing, but excluding a domineering groping sexual assaulter from polite society? The guy is being excluded from polite society? Isn't he being embraced for being a closet fag? Isn't that what Sydney is all about? Being celebrated for being faggy?

Again from the Sidney morning Herald:


Men’s rights activist Bettina Arndt used the comments section of the podcast episode to describe Szeps’ commentary as “nuanced and intelligent”.

In her own blog post following Jones’ arrest, Arndt said she was “incensed at the gleeful targeting by the state and the media of this decent, principled man”.

“Do taxpayers really approve of the spending of hundreds of thousands from our police budget trying to prove some decades-old claims of gropes of bottoms or other bits of husky young men by this 83-year-old man?” she wrote.

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Ok obviously Bettina and I differ on Szeps because she hasn't mentioned he's a complete hunk and also she credits him for not being a total dope, which he seems to be, albeit with dreamy hair. This is a lady that jokes about female orgasm involving squirting in a crowded room while addressing folks, so more Sydney polite society for you. Gleeful targetting? I've characterised it as one fag amongst numerous gay people in a gay society. I suppose it's confusing for women in the media who haven't touched their husbands' johnsons in over twenty years, 'why would he even want to do that?' Bettina is saying they're young and husky so they need someone grabbing their johnsons? Sounds tone deaf. Why wouldn't they go to a gay club instead of the police if they want someone grabbing their johnsons uninvited?

Wednesday, November 20, 2024

Pulp Shluts

 

Do you read the Bible Brett?


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Conditioner leaves the hair silky and smooth...

https://youtu.be/hTHcI0yJ12E?si=5lxPGCaP8ipMpRq-


Tuesday, November 19, 2024

Special Agent Shirley Starling.... Shirley FBI and Alan Jones

 Characters: Nancy Grace, Shirley, FBI director Christopher Wray, Alan Jones 


Psychic names, Alan Sinclair, John Sinclair 

Topic, Central/north coast serial killer 


Gags: Jones' misogynistic listeners... My old man's sheep


Miami Vice theme....

https://youtu.be/6nPTZqnIfFM?si=wtvXLe6IrVnpWsdY


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Silence of the lambs, Clarice and Hannibal's first meeting....

https://youtu.be/SoZ1e5kjjcs?si=JzOzHhifIkWdtzup

Jodie Foster discusses this scene...

https://youtube.com/shorts/ZbPSAT78XHg?si=auzZeoYnQZ_mVoCu


🐜 Biology...

https://youtube.com/shorts/bV15v2CHAvU?si=r3sg9xWw4Qv7ha1P

Tardigraes ...

https://youtube.com/shorts/qcje-Y63PpU?si=FkrQdBrejtAer9N4
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Note: removing bottle tops with one's teeth is potentially catastrophic to teeth, a no-no

20h en Francais

 Les Bracelets : Flamme Éternelle

https://youtu.be/TLTrtMlNmUQ?si=izshdIa1F6VOX_Ul


Les chauffeurs routiers français en grève déversent du vin espagnol sur l'autoroute. Les camions projettent de la boue sur les bâtiments


Les trafiquants de drogue en France sont tellement enracinés et puissants qu'ils peuvent ordonner l'assassinat de magistrats depuis leur prison.

Abomination of desolation

 

Sometimes before I fall asleep at night I'll listen to those YouTube videos about the book of revelations and the spirit of Antichrist. Sometimes in the day occasionally I'll wonder about the spirit of Antichrist. Then I wonder what the abomination of desolation is. Is it like TS Elliot's Wasteland.


Culturally speaking, probably you couldn't look further than Australia's channel ten's "The Project," for a cultural wasteland such as TS Eliot's Wasteland. But could Australia's channel ten's "The Project" qualify as an actual abomination of desolation such as described in the book of revelations? I'm not sure. I'm just not sure what the abomination of desolation is. I think it has to do with the Jewish temple or something. If so, channel ten's The Project is more just a regular run of the mill cultural wasteland. Someone generally will say something giggling them everyone will giggle hysterically. It's really awkward. I heard one of them saying, "it's a bit sad I guess", today. I think it was the Murdoch lady. So I just mimicked her whiny toxic positivity tone about twenty times until my seven year old daughter got super annoyed by it. 


"It's a bit sad!"

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Alan Jones charged with 24 offences against eight victims over two decades

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Alan Jones has been charged with 24 offences against eight alleged victims spanning two decades after a lengthy police investigation into allegations of indecent assault and sexual touching.


The broadcaster and former Wallabies coach was arrested at his luxury Circular Quay apartment at 7.45am on Monday over allegations he indecently assaulted, groped or inappropriately touched multiple young men. Jones was driven in an unmarked police car to Day Street police station, where he re-emerged hours later after being granted bail.


Alan Jones leaves Day Street Police Station in Sydney after being granted bail.

Alan Jones leaves Day Street Police Station in Sydney after being granted bail.Credit:James Brickwood


Jones has been charged with 11 counts of aggravated indecent assault, nine counts of assault with an act of indecency, two counts of sexually touching another person without their consent and two counts of common assault.


Police said Jones knew some of his alleged victims personally, some professionally, and in some circumstances the alleged abuse took place the first time they met Jones. The youngest of the alleged victims was aged 17 at the time of the alleged offences.


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At 5.10pm, a frail-looking Jones, flanked by his lawyers, was met by a waiting media pack as he left custody. Wearing a green tracksuit and matching shoes and using a walking stick, Jones did not answer reporters’ questions as he was ushered to a waiting car.



His lawyer, Chris Murphy, told reporters Jones “denies any misconduct”.


“Nothing has been tested. Nothing has been proven. Alan Jones will assert his innocence appropriately in the courtroom,” Murphy said.


Jones was granted bail with restrictions on his travel and contact with alleged victims. He will face Downing Centre Local Court on December 18.


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As part of his bail conditions, Jones has surrendered his passport and must not leave the state or country. He is also prohibited from contacting any complainant or witness related to the investigation into his alleged crimes.


For the past nine months, detectives from Strike Force Bonnefin, run by the State Crime Command’s Child Abuse Squad, have been conducting a top-secret investigation into Jones.


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The strike force was formed after a lengthy investigation by the Herald and The Age, which revealed in December that Jones had used his position of power, first as a teacher and later as the country’s top-rating radio broadcaster, to allegedly prey on a number of young men.


“I wish to commend the investigators of Strike Force Bonnefin [for] their tenacity and hard work ... Historical matters such as this are incredibly hard to investigate,” Assistant Commissioner Michael Fitzgerald said.


“I wish to commend the victims [for] their bravery in coming forward. They are fully aware, as are the investigators, that the hard work is just beginning. They have given their statements fully aware they will go through the courts.


“The reports in the Herald and The Age did result in victims coming forward and the creation of Strike Force Bonnefin but … a number of witnesses have been assisting police over the years.”



Jones wore matching green pants and a green jacket as he sat beside a detective, grasping his walking stick, in the back of the white Hyundai SUV.


Another detective pushed through the waiting media pack when she exited the car’s passenger seat outside the police station. Photographers and camera operators swarmed the car as Jones sat expressionless inside.


The car idled for a few seconds before continuing into the station’s garage. Police said Jones was “calm” when arrested and immediately sought legal advice.


Electronic devices were taken into evidence by police.


NSW Police Commissioner Karen Webb said the arrest came after a “very long, thorough, protracted investigation” and she expected more people may come forward with allegations.


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“I did visit the strike force some weeks and months ago to look at the work that they have been doing. It is very complex and protracted, and I know that those officers have been working tirelessly to lead today’s operation,” she said.


“I can’t speculate in this particular case, but what is often the case is when it is known – the full circumstances and those parties involved – other people may come forward, and we are anticipating that other people may come forward.”


Premier Chris Minns said he understood the public interest in the case, but added he would not offer running commentary.


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In 1965, Jones was a 23-year-old teacher at Brisbane Grammar, where he is alleged to have put his hands down the pants of a student and squeezed his testicles. The student said when he was struck in the groin by a cricket ball, Jones – who was teaching English as well as coaching cricket – held his testicles for “maybe 30 seconds to a minute”.


At Jones’ next school, The King’s School in the Sydney suburb of Parramatta, a student alleged Jones put his hand down his athletic shorts.


During his 35 years as the most successful and feared broadcaster of his generation, Jones is also alleged to have indecently assaulted young men.


One former 2GB employee has alleged he was repeatedly indecently assaulted by Jones.


Brad Webster (not his real name) told the Herald and The Age last year: “If I went to the police, Jones could be charged. What he did to me was a criminal offence. He cannot die without people knowing what he’s done.”


Jones was 65 when Webster was hired at age 20 to do menial jobs including driving the radio star from the station’s Pyrmont studios to his apartment in the Circular Quay building, dubbed The Toaster.


“During those 10 minutes, it would be wandering hands and then it just gradually became him grabbing my dick … you’re driving, you’re absolutely trapped … he’d go the grope, he’d rub my penis,” Webster said.


Jones is also alleged to have kissed him in the lift and exposed himself in the apartment.



Like many others, Webster knew he would be destroyed if he complained.


“Jones was more powerful than the prime minister,” said Webster. “He could pick up the phone to John Howard and demand for things to be done.”


One former radio producer, who asked not to be named due to fear of reprisals, said that, while he didn’t see Jones touching anyone’s genitals, “I did see inappropriate behaviour and I saw it on a number of occasions.”


The producer said Jones’ petting and pawing of young men was “uninvited”, “predatory”, “brazen” and “absolutely confronting”.


Jones, he said, “would be all over them – he wouldn’t take his hands off them”.


He said the young men, including staff, waiters and singers on Jones’ show, “would be very embarrassed and very uncomfortable”.


Several men from the arts community have alleged that Jones assaulted them at his apartment overlooking the Sydney Opera House.


One, a musician, said he didn’t say anything to anyone because Jones was immensely powerful and no one wanted to risk getting the broadcaster offside. “You get on the wrong side and he’ll ruin you,” he said.


In 2008, a young waiter who was 22 at the time said he was working at a Kiama restaurant when an inebriated Jones grabbed and fondled his penis without consent.


The late tech entrepreneur Alex Hartman, who died in 2019, told four journalists Jones indecently assaulted him as a teenager. “I was his prey … I know I am not the only one, and this will come out somehow.” Hartman also claimed that Jones “forces himself on young men and uses his power in a predatory way”.


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In January 2017, a then-schoolboy told the Herald and The Age he was invited to spend a weekend at Jones’ Fitzroy Falls property in the NSW Southern Highlands. The broadcaster had taken an interest in the boy’s family following numerous difficulties, including the death of the boy’s sister.


The boy later gave a statement to police in which he alleged that he and Jones, who was 75 at the time, watched a movie before Jones passionately kissed him on the lips and placed his left hand on the boy’s buttocks. After pushing Jones away, he told the police that he went to the bathroom “with my loofah and soap and began scrubbing my mouth, inside and out, as much as I could”.


He later told his mother that someone with “power and money” had done “something to him which he shouldn’t have”.


Jones denied the allegations raised by the Herald and The Age in December 2023 and threatened to sue. He is yet to commence legal action.


In March, he released a video in which he claimed medical ailments had kept him from appearing on the conservative ADH (Australian Digital Holdings) TV, which broadcasts to a small audience via social media platforms.


“The get-Jones campaign is nothing new in my life,” Jones said in the video.


Although Jones announced in the video that he had “every intention of returning to broadcasting”, he has not been on air since the Herald and The Age raised the allegations last year.


Additional reporting by Perry Duffin and Daniel Lo Surdo.


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I asked Alan Jones about his sexuality and alleged abuse of power. This was his response

A quarter of a century ago I wrote a story for Good Weekend magazine with the headline: “Who’s afraid of Alan Jones?”

The answer was almost everyone.

Of the nearly 100 people I interviewed, only a handful were prepared to be quoted by name. The rest were too scared of retribution.

“He could destroy my company,” one chief executive told me. “If I want to be employed again in Sydney,” said another, “I have to be really careful.”

“You could end up losing your job or being sued. He has a ridiculous amount of power,” said a third. And this from a fourth: “You can’t take him on because you’ll only cop another bucket [on radio] the next morning.”

NSW detectives outside Alan Jones’ Circular Quay home on Monday.

NSW detectives outside Alan Jones’ Circular Quay home on Monday.CREDIT:KATE GERAGHTY

Today, at 83, Alan Jones is a hugely diminished figure from the man I profiled in the waning years of the 20th century. Today, in addition to a raft of health problems, Jones has been arrested over allegations he indecently assaulted, groped or inappropriately touched multiple young men.

In 1998, however, as host of Sydney’s top-rating breakfast radio program on 2UE, he seemed almost invincible. Five days a week, Jones commanded the attention of as many as 600,000 Australians by blending an unpredictable mix of right-wing authoritarianism with populist outrage. His targets were big banks, government bureaucracy, environmentalists, welfare recipients, the ABC, Aboriginal activists, the judicial system and select politicians.

He was the emperor of the airwaves, a demagogue forever running hot on law-and-order issues, while also articulating the concerns of ordinary Australians, a group he referred to collectively as “Struggle Street”.

Each week, politicians, police commissioners, bank chiefs and bureaucrats shuddered with apprehension at the thought they might be next in line for an on-air haranguing. He was unstoppable, possessed of an almost freakish energy that he employed to prosecute the causes he believed in, and the companies he was discreetly paid to promote. (And, yes, this was the cash-for-comments scandal about to break in Sydney in the late 1990s.)

“His brain is a f---ing industry,” his manager, the late Harry M. Miller, told me, while trying to describe the “river of words” that was Jones, a man as comfortable talking about the last race at Caulfield as discoursing on the Bard.

The November 1998 Good Weekend cover portrays Alan Jones for a profile by David Leser.

The November 1998 Good Weekend cover portrays Alan Jones for a profile by David Leser.CREDIT:FAIRFAX

There was nothing – and no one – that seemed to faze him. At one private dinner party on Sydney’s waterfront one evening, he saw fit to lecture then-prime minister John Howard on law and order, protectionism and the Asian economies.

“DON’T YOU KNOW WHO I AM?” he was often heard yelling. “I AM ALAN JONES.”

And that was my challenge: to discover who Alan Jones was. At best, he was a brilliant, electrifying figure, capable of great generosity to those he liked, and, yes, sometimes they were troubled, young male athletes. At his worst, he was an intimidating, aggressive presence and almost certainly the most sued person in the Australian media at that time.

During the 4½ hours I sat with him in the firelit den of his three-storey inner-city warehouse, I tried a number of times to get him to open up about both his sexuality and alleged abuse of power. I did so partly because during my research I’d heard numerous stories, beginning with his days as a teacher at Brisbane Grammar and The King’s School in Sydney, where he’d had spectacular collisions with parents, students and other teachers.

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Jones played favourites and in the case of King’s also liked to give certain students private tuition, an impulse that caused great consternation among his fellow teachers. One housemaster even climbed a tree on consecutive nights with a camera, hoping to capture incriminating evidence.

“What an absurdity,” Jones told me when I put that to him at the time. “That’s nonsense stuff.” Except it wasn’t.

In subsequent years, Jones continued to be the subject of stage-door whispers over his sexuality, and not just because he’d been arrested in 1988 in a London toilet on charges of indecency. (The charges were later dropped and costs were awarded to Jones.)

Jones’ treatment of some of his staff, particularly women, gave rise to accusations of misogyny that would later reach fever pitch with his attacks on Australia’s first female prime minister, Julia Gillard, and New Zealand’s third female prime minister, Jacinda Ardern.

In 2011, Jones said Gillard (together with then-Greens leader Bob Brown) should be shoved in a “chaff bag” and hauled out to sea. In 2019, he launched an on-air tirade against Ardern, suggesting Australia’s then-prime minister Scott Morrison “shove a sock down [her] throat”.

Who was this man who ruled the airwaves, who preached the virtues of courtesy and civility, but who could then subject others to towering rages and invective? “I AM NOT SHOUTING,” he was heard shouting at employees.

Alan Jones photographed at his Sydney home in March 2011.

Alan Jones photographed at his Sydney home in March 2011. CREDIT:WADE LAUBE

In all my weeks of investigating Jones’ life and career, I never learnt of one enduring, intimate relationship he might have enjoyed. As far as I could determine, this helped explain his anger, his divisiveness and the furious schedule he maintained, one that only allowed him three hours of sleep a night.

In my naivety, or hubris, or both, I wanted to explore this with him because I believed that, notwithstanding the difficulties in doing so, if you couldn’t own your sexuality, if you couldn’t live – as much as possible – a truly authentic life, you might end up on a path towards self-destruction. (Which is not to say that being comfortable with one’s own sexuality precludes a person from being an abuser.)

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But when I tried to raise the matter with him, he invoked the nuclear warships principle.

“I think that one’s private life is a bit like nuclear warships,” he said. “I mean, you don’t sort of tell people, do you, whether they’re loaded with nuclear weapons or not?”

I suggested to Jones that in light of his propensity to help young men in need, the English language needed more words for love. I suggested that Greek was more expansive on this question and that perhaps he, like many Australian men, suffered from the constraints of English. (Yes, I know, I tied myself up in knots.)

“I think that what you seem to be suggesting,” he replied, “is that there is a tendency ... when people assist to believe that there is some motive for that assistance. But you can’t really ever get into the business of lying awake at night worrying about the motives that people attribute to you.”

Me: “I take that point and I mean this with all due respect, but ever since the London toilet incident you’ve been dogged ... with all sorts of scuttlebutt about your sexuality. Can I just ask you to put on the record now ...”

Jones: “You’re going to ask me a nuclear warship question.”

Me: “I’m going to ask you are you gay or not?”

Jones: “I’ve never confirmed or denied anything … And I don’t believe people should be asked to in relation to their private lives.”

Me: “Well, I understand why you would consider my question a violation of that right to privacy or an imposition ...”

Jones: “Absolutely.”

Me: “But can I put to you ...”, and then I surmised that this was an example of “Pulcinella’s secret”, the term sometimes used for an open secret that everyone knows about. Did that concern him?

Broadcaster Alan Jones at his home in December 2023.

Broadcaster Alan Jones at his home in December 2023.CREDIT:NINE

“No, how could it?” he replied. “There are many things that are said about a lot of people, and you’ve got to get on with your life and you’ve got to be convinced of the validity of what you do.”

A quarter of a century later, with Jones’ arrest in Sydney, the question is not whether he is gay or not, it’s whether he’s broken the law and, in the process, profoundly damaged the lives of a number of his alleged victims.

Back in 1988, his arrest in London seemed to be a life-altering moment.

“I’ve never said this before,” he told me, “but I spent most of my life being a victor, and that was one period in my life when I was the victim. It’s a silly thing to say, but I think in many ways I’m most probably, I hope, a better person.

“I think I’m more tolerant, less judgmental, because I think things can be said about people and done to people which can be very damaging to them, and I think it’s good to stand back and think again.”

David Leser is an author and journalist. He is a regular contributor to and former staff writer with Good Weekend.

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